Recorded live, 8–10 September 2026

Unapologetically yourself.

Three evenings about the man you keep reaching for, why your memory keeps deleting his bad parts, and the exact words for the conversations you have been avoiding.

Fourteen women sat through it live. It's recorded now, and you can have all of it.

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Day one is where you see it

The type of man you keep reaching for, and where you learned to reach for him in the first place. You separate the fact from the story you put on it, and you count what believing that story cost you. And you find out why, after a year of this, your memory quietly deletes his bad parts and keeps only the good ones.

Day two is where you own it

The four-minute practice Marina still does every morning — catch the thought, check the facts, rewrite it accurately — run on your own pattern, not on a made-up example. Then the two things nobody warns you about: the guilt that arrives twenty minutes after you say no, and the loneliness that gets worse before it gets better.

Day three is where you live it

Boundaries without the guilt tax, and the actual sentences. What to say when he appears two months later with “I miss you”. What to say when it's about money. What to say when you raise a problem and somehow finish the conversation apologising to him.

What you actually get

Everything the women in the room got, minus the room.

All three evenings, recorded in full — about four and a half hours
The workbook, 27 pages — the one Marina names page numbers from, out loud, as she teaches
The 10 Red Flags checklist — in her language, not a listicle
21 boundary scripts across 7 situations — sentences you can send, not advice about being firmer
Yours to keep. No expiry, no login, no subscription

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Straight with you

This is a recording, not a live course.

Marina isn't going to see your messages, answer your question, or know you're there. The women in the room typed things into that chat that they had never said out loud to anybody, and she answered them in the moment. You'll hear those answers. You won't get your own.

If what you need is somebody to look at your specific situation, this isn't it — wait for the next live one, the sign-up is at the bottom of this page.

And one more thing. This is education about relationships and self-worth. It is not therapy, not a diagnosis, and not crisis support. If you are frightened of someone, please talk to a professional or a local helpline — findahelpline.com is free and confidential in over 130 countries.

Who she is

Marina is not a coach and not a psychologist, and she says so out loud in the first ten minutes.

She was born in Almaty, lost her father young, lost her brother, and arrived in Belgium with her mother as a political refugee. A year and a half in a camp. Later she moved to the UAE alone with no guarantee it would work, and built a career patient by patient. Her community now reaches women in more than eighty countries.

What she teaches here is not a method she read about. It's what she used on herself, including the morning practice her own therapist gave her, which she still does six years later.

Questions

How long is it?

Three evenings of about ninety minutes each, so roughly four and a half hours. You can watch it over three nights the way the room did, or in one go. Most people do it over a week.

Do I need the workbook?

Yes, and print it if you can. Marina says “open page nine” out loud and then waits while the room writes. If you're watching without it you'll be a passenger. It downloads the moment you pay.

What if I'm not in a relationship right now?

Some of the women in that room had left, some were leaving, some had been on their own for years. Day one has a section for exactly that, in the first two minutes. The work is about the pattern that picks, not about a particular man.

Is this about hating men?

No, and Marina says it plainly on the first evening: “I am not here to make you hate him. I am here to help you stop leaving yourself every time you are afraid he might leave you.”

How do I watch it?

Straight in your browser, on the page you land on after paying. Nothing to install, no account to make, no passcode. Bookmark that page and it's yours.

Can I get a refund?

It's a recording, so you get everything the moment you pay and nothing can be handed back. That means all sales are final — which is exactly why the whole programme is laid out above and why the paragraph about what this isn't is on this page too. Read both before you buy. Something actually broken, charged twice, a video that won't play? Write to hello@milessenta.com and it gets fixed the same day.

Or wait for the live one

The next round runs live, with Marina in the room.

Bigger than these three evenings and built around what the last group actually struggled with. No date yet, and I'd rather tell you that than invent one to keep you interested.

One email when the dates are set. Nothing else, and you can leave with one click.

Three evenings, the workbook, the scripts. $39.